Question: Should I message my ex?

According to Walfish, theres definitely a time when its acceptable to text your ex—particularly when there are signs that you two might be able to reconcile. These signs include that they express and demonstrate genuine accountability and remorse for having hurt you.

Why shouldnt you message your ex?

1) Youll give your ex the satisfaction of knowing you arent over them. If you and your ex dont communicate, they have no way of knowing if youve moved on or are still thinking about them. This gives your ex the upper hand in post-breakup land. Never, ever sacrifice the upper hand just to send a text message.

Should I text my ex after no contact?

Dont just text because you are lonely,” she concludes. Ultimately, the choice to reach out to an ex after a period of no contact is totally up to you. Just make sure that youre doing it for the right reasons and that it wont actually make your heart hurt more now than it did before you hit send.

Should we message your ex?

Sometimes, contacting your ex can be a good thing – or, at least, a neutral thing. For example, if your split was amicable and casual texts back and forth dont set either of you back emotionally, its OK. But this isnt the only rule. In fact, a lot of what makes an Ex Text™ acceptable is the timing.

Why does he keep texting after breakup?

“Most of the time this would be for romantic or sexual reasons, but sometimes they might just want to be friends again.” If the relationship ended on bad terms or your ex feels the breakup was their fault, they may be texting you out of guilt and a desire to make things right, Rodman added.

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